Ets fam\u00edlia acollidora? Com \u200b\u200bho est\u00e0s portant?<\/p>\n
Tant si ho ets com si coneixes una fam\u00edlia que acull aquest bloc \u00e9s per tu.<\/p>\n
\u00a0Potser al principi visquessis amb molta il\u00b7lusi\u00f3 acollir una fam\u00edlia o, una mare i els seus fills (la majoria). La il\u00b7lusi\u00f3 i els bons sentiments de l’inici que us va emp\u00e8nyer a acollir segurament encara hi s\u00f3n, o potser ja no hi predominin altres sentiments com el cansament, la incomprensi\u00f3 o la impot\u00e8ncia. En tots dos casos, deixa’m dir-te que \u00e9s normal i que no ets la \u00fanica fam\u00edlia que ho viu aix\u00ed.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
\u201cLes fam\u00edlies que acullen estan molt tocades\u201d \u201calgunes fam\u00edlies ja no poden m\u00e9s hem d’organitzar alguna cosa per ajudar-les\u201d <\/strong>s\u00f3n frases que sonen al col\u00b7lectiu de psic\u00f2legs que estem amb ajuda als refugiats. Aquesta \u00e9s una de les raons per les quals em vaig decidir a fer aquest bloc, empatitzar amb vosaltres i dir-vos que no esteu sols.<\/p>\n
\u00a0 No sab\u00edem ni ens havien ensenyat a enfrontar-nos a un tema tan complicat com acollir persones que v\u00e9nen d’una situaci\u00f3 de \u00a0trauma i de terror molt dur, tampoc ens hav\u00edem preparat per a unes difer\u00e8ncies culturals tan importants.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Les difer\u00e8ncies en el car\u00e0cter i en la forma d’expressar:<\/strong> en general, per cultura i per la hist\u00f2ria del pa\u00eds els ucra\u00efnesos s\u00f3n gent m\u00e9s tancada. Per a ells \u00e9s signe de debilitat mostrar all\u00f2 que senten, poden semblar molt herm\u00e8tics o \u201cpoc simp\u00e0tics\u201d , per\u00f2 per una banda \u00e9s una defensa, pura superviv\u00e8ncia al dolor que estan vivint i, de l’altra, \u00e9s la seva cultura.<\/p>\n
Per aquesta mateixa ra\u00f3 la majoria no es mostren agra\u00efts tot el temps i fins i tot poden tenir comportaments que ens facin sentir el contrari<\/strong>: tancar-se a la seva habitaci\u00f3, no voler menjar \u201cen fam\u00edlia\u201d i preferir fer-ho a part, mirar-nos amb estranyesa, desconfian\u00e7a o no \u201cintegrar-se\u201d en moments familiars com veure la tele, la sobretaula, l’esmorzar, anar a veure familiars o amics o jugar amb els nens\u2026<\/p>\n
\u00a0Aqu\u00ed hem de tenir en compte tamb\u00e9 el trauma i l’horror que porten a sobre, aix\u00f2 es tradueix en comportaments d’a\u00efllament, desconfian\u00e7a, por i, en general, un bloqueig emocional, mental i f\u00edsic que produeix una desconnexi\u00f3 o dist\u00e0ncia amb qui ajuda m\u00e9s gran enll\u00e0 de les difer\u00e8ncies de car\u00e0cter i culturals.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Si fem conscient tot aix\u00f2 podrem portar millor aquest temps d’acompanyament a aquestes fam\u00edlies, sens dubte est\u00e0s fent un b\u00e9 per al seu present i el seu futur tan sols ent\u00e9n que el seu passat (immediat) ha estat horrible i aix\u00f2 ho porten per un temps a sobre.<\/p>\n
Pots contactar amb les organitzacions d’ajuda al refugiat que tinguis properes o amb psic\u00f2legs experts en trauma, emerg\u00e8ncies i crisis per rebre pautes concretes al teu cas.<\/p>\n
Espero que aquest post t’ajuda estat d’ajuda, em pots escriure en comentaris i et llegeixo,<\/p>\n
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Una abra\u00e7ada,<\/p>\n
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